The Best Boyfriend is A Girlfriend, I Explain

The Best Boyfriend is a Girlfriend

Why?

No sexual tension, once you get that out of the way, everything’s cool

Just friends

Movies, eat, shopping, both of you can say what you like

Girl talk

You can kee kee about your guys and even double date if you both have someone

Have peace of mind

Nothing is really at stake, you can relax and hang out without wondering if you look like a blithering idiot, because if you are he can say: You sound like a blithering idiot and how do you respond? By saying, yes it’s true or saying something more offensive to them

Closeness

There are things only friends can do for each other and things only lovers can do, but a friend has a closeness to you that many people may not be able to breach because of the fact that they don’t have the kind of closeness you’ve got with your ace booncoon. You always know when he’s not being entirely honest with you and you can call him out on it and when he asks why don’t you believe me you can say simply: Because I know you

You can get a PNB out of it

Sometimes one friend may not know you like them and if there is a spark there after a while, it can become a long lasting friendship or a relationship. Sometimes, gay men’s best friends are ex’s and though there was a common past, that doesn’t indicate a common future, though some would like to stretch a seasonal person into a long term, which never works. Also about a girlfriend becoming a boyfriend, you know enough of eachother, but there is a closeness that you haven’t breached because he’s your friend, and could be a side of him you don’t know. So sometimes it pays to leave well enough alone, but other times, the one can be right in front of your face and you never know